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Kanika Dua Ahuja's avatar

The guilty feeling of being an ex people pleaser. The door I need to shut down.. Even after I created the boundaries, stopped the pleasing, something in me is still getting guilty, for not doing, for not being there even as the other part knows how much I lost by doing so much and being taken for granted. Still there is a nagging voice, the unnamed fear, handed out in childhood that you have to be good. Overcoming this drilled down 'goodness' which was serving everyone except me is that thing that I have to do this week.

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I lost my partner to cancer on Monday. It will be a week, exactly, on the 29th.

I know stuff is going to hit...

So, this is a heads up for the coming week like I've NEVER needed before.

🙌 🙏 ❤️

Thank you.

I'll be following your advice daily.. as closely as I am able. I'll try.

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